Seadation wrote:When you go pick him up don't try to pet him or rub him in his body or head and don't hesitate just go for it and grab him. He will settle down after a couple of days. Good luck!
This.
Even though my guy was relatively calm on the day I unboxed him, he did become somewhat defensive afterwards. I felt confused because he was really calm and curious. His unboxing was done at my kitchen table. Once I pulled the lid off his container and let him warm up, he took it upon himself to crawl out and explore the table top. Like any new owner, I was really hesitant in trying to pick him up, not knowing what kind of defensive reaction he would give. I slowly approached with my hand, which caused him to get hissy, then he'd approach and chomp my fingers. Since the bites didn't hurt, I let him have his way until he calmed down My second thought was he was hungry. I scooped a tsp of wet dog food and he went to town. I was like, "YEAH!" Once I felt it was time to introduce him to his new home, I picked him up w/o so much of a hiss. Of course, I didn't want to put him down or anything; but, I had to. Once in his home, he then became a bit defensive. I wish I could relive that day again. I don't believe I had ever been so excited about opening a box.
I've had my BTS since Oct. 1st and he is mostly tamed now. It took many days of sitting in front of his enclosure, reaching in and let him get used to my hands/arm, hand feed treats, and etc. All the work has paid off. He doesn't mind when I'm in his cage cleaning/feeding, and he pretty much lets me know when he wants out. He's even to the point to where I can reach in to lightly rub his back and sides. Still working on that, but he's taking it well.
I had another pet lizard in the past and things didn't go well. I am glad I chose a BTS as a second go on lizards. Give your BTS time to adjust to you and his/her new surroundings; and, be persistent and patient.
The hissing/huffing is only a warning, sometimes they will firmly bite as a warning or to investigate. Anytime my guy bit me, it felt as though someone was firmly squeezing a finger. You knew something was there, but it didn't hurt. Rosco did this at first with my hands and fingers. Over time he stopped and now knows they are not food or will not threaten him. He still gives a hiss every now and then; but it subsides quickly.
Good luck!